Author: Deconstructing Abusive Power
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Covert Abuse and the Power of Charisma
1. Covert Abuse is Slick and Confusing Covert emotional and psychological abuse is confusing. It often goes undetected. Trying to unravel what is happening is exhausting. You may know that something isn’t quite right but you can’t quite put your finger on it. This is why it’s so important to have accurate and informative language…
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What No One Tells You About Fundamentalist Cults
Who Were You Before the Fundamentalist Cult? I’ve thought a lot about the other people who were members of the fundamentalist cult I was involved in. I’ve even wondered what their perception was of me during my time as a “pastor’s wife”. The common phrase used to describe the embodiment of the church was, “we…
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Ways to Recognize Spiritual Abuse & High Control Groups
Between the ages of 17 and 30yrs old, I was in a disruptive, coercive, high control group. What started out as a well meaning journey to find purpose in life and contribute to society in meaningful ways through the demonstration of my faith, soon became a toxic, debilitating, life-altering, and isolating MESS! I could have…
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Key Benefits to Understanding & Naming Abuse
In the ever-evolving world, the art of forging genuine connections remains timeless. Whether it’s with colleagues, clients, or partners, establishing a genuine rapport paves the way for collaborative success.
Deconstructing Abusive Power 